Parent Through Puberty With Confidence
A year long membership space for parents of pre-teens and tweens (7-12 year olds)
Imagine….
… calmly walking your daughter through her period and the products she can use
… talking to your son about wet dreams and erections without breaking a sweat
… keeping your connection with your kiddo strong so you can weather the storm together
… having a community of experts at your fingertips for those moments “Oh shit what do I do next “ moments.
… raising kids who know and trust they can ask you anything about sex, relationships and bodies
… raising a confident kid who can recognize abuse, call it out and report it
… raising kids who know how to be safe online and and trust they can tell you when it’s not
If you want to raise kids who know, love and trust their bodies and themselves, and respect the bodies and brains of others - this is the place to be.
Did you keep a diary when you were in grade 7? I sure did. Reading back on it is a) cringeworthy and b) a stark reminder of the many different kinds of stresses I was facing during a time when my brain made the world all about me and made my problems seem 1 million times bigger than they actually were.
Puberty is a time of massive transition. A little alarm clock goes off in our brain and our body begins the process of transitioning from a kid body (one that does not reproduce) to an adult body (or one that can reproduce). At the same time we are gaining our independence and autonomy, figuring out our likes and dislikes, distancing ourselves from our parents and trying to navigate the tricky worlds of friendships, cliques, and crushes. On top of that our kids are now trying to manage two identities (one in the real world and one online), trying to navigate their way through very confusing media messages about who they should be and fending off dick pics and naked selfie requests left right and centre. Add to this every day stresses of school work load, family transitions like divorce and you’ve got a recipe for a challenging parenting season.
The Parenting Through Puberty Membership is a space set up just for you - to get the resources you need to navigate this tricky time.
I designed it as a year-long membership because I didn’t want to teach you a short course and peace out. I wanted you to have a space where you could a) learn the tools to get proactive about managing your relationship with your kid and informing them about the changes ahead and b) have a place to panic and pick yourself up when the sh** his the fan. (Cause it will)
Topics We’ll Cover
Your kid’s brain on puberty
Puberty 101 - Periods and wet dreams and pimples Oh my!
Body Image and Confidence
Communicating Effectively with your teen
Friendships and Bullying
Managing the Mad Sads and Glads
Media literacy and porn
LGTBQ2S + - supporting your kids to be allies and if they identify
Cybersafety - sexting and selfies
Abuse Prevention
Sex Ed and Neurodivergent/ Atypical Kids + Physical Disability
Am I missing something? Send me an email sofia@thehappyvaginaproject.com and let me know what you want to see.
Hey, I’m Sofia Ashley
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LGTBQ2S + inclusive space
we belive that sex is a healthy part of every adult life
we uphold a childs right to information about their body and life
we uphold every human’s right to healthy sexuality and relationsihps
What you can expect….
The confidence to talk through the biggest puberty changes with all the science and facts to back you up.
The tools to really listen to your kid, their new worries and fears, and support them in regulating their new ever-changing emotions.
The ability to stay connected to your teen through this rocky transition, and build the trust that you are a judgement-free zone to talk about bodies, relationships and sex.
A supportive and caring space to talk about the scary stuff (abuse prevention and online safety) and experts to guide you through safety in the digital age.
The groundwork that will set you up for the harder conversations when they start dating and becoming sexually active.
The tools you need to raise happy, healthy humans who know love and respect their bodies, are free of sexual shame and taboo and have the information they need to navigate making decisions that are authentic and true to them.
What It Looks Like
Hosted on my online community it is Facebook free - Access it on your phone via mobile app or on the web anytime
Ask me anything office hours for when those panic stricken moments hit
Monthly live workshops with guest experts (catch the replay in the library if you miss it live)
Access to the back catalogue of the entire year’s topics, workshops and resources
Monthly guest expert office hours
Judgement free space to vent about the challenges and wins of parenting your pre-teen and tween
Community of other parents who are there to learn, challenge their assumptions and raise some awesome sauce kids
Conversation scripts to get the ball rolling
All my favourite book and web resources for starting the conversation in your home
Tips and toolkits to tackle the tough situations
Prompts to explore your own judgements and hang ups about sex
What it Costs
There’s a couple of different ways to access the Parenting Through Puberty Membership.
We’ll be launch March 27 at our introductory pricing plan - see below. Join the waitlist to be the first to hear when we open our doors.
$67.99/ month (paid monthly)
$175 / 3 months prepaid (Save 15% ) $67.99 per month after that
$305 / 6 months prepaid (Save 25$) $67.99 per month after that
$530.00 / 12 months prepaid (Save 35%)
One membership per family.
FAQ
Can any parent join?
You bet. This is a space for all parents raising all kids, regardless of how they identify. We will be working hard to ensure that this space is safe to folks of all colours, backgrounds and identities.
Can I cancel my membership at any time?
If you find that this space is not for you, you can reach out anytime to sofia@thehappyvaginaproject.com to cancel your membership. All future payments will be cancelled.
Can I access this if I don’t use Facebook?
You bet, we are a Facebook free community. I host my online course and membership platform on Mighty Networks. So you can join us there. It’s awesome because you can access it as an app and on your web browser. Meet other parents, but control the information you share with the group - no Facebook spying. Connect with conversations and topics, access all of our guest lectures and experts all right on the platform.
I will also send regular email updates to members so you don’t miss anything.