Whose got 2 kids, a busy life, and very little desire to have sex ? - If you are here, probably you - and countless other mothers across the globe.

As a mamma, it can be really tough to make space for your sexual self and your pleasure, but making that space is key to feeling sexy, and feeling sexy is core to waking up your sleeping libido.

I know … your partner thinks you are sexy as hell, and he tells you so - but you just can’t feel it. You cringe when he makes a move, feel guilty you don’t want it more often, and wonder secretly if there’s something wrong with you.

Now, there’s lots going here, and many factors at play when it comes to your libido changing - but I can tell you what it isn’t.

It’s not that your kids might hear you,
It’s not that you just need to lose a few pounds,
It’s not that your libido is broken, and
It’s not that you will never desire sex again

What is it then?

Well, mostly - it’s how you feel about all these things.

What if you could love your body just as she is and get out of your head during sex?
What if you could smoothly transition from mama self to sexy self - and even know who your sexy self is?
What if tuning into your pleasure, your wants, and your needs, could support you to desire sex again.
What if you honoured the part of you that desires, that wants pleasure, and you could teach your kids the same.

All these things are possible

Reclaim Your Sexy Online is a 6 week self-paced program for mamas who are ready to find their sexual self again. The program is one part sex ed 101 and one part experiencing things in your body. Think short youtube videos on the basics of libido and arousal, and then journaling, movement, and guided meditations to help you actually get out of your brain and into your sexy self. No self-pleasure this time.

We are going to cover:

Meeting your sexual self - who is she anyways? Let’s find her. We’ll meet a variety of sexual archetypes and personalities and help you get in touch with this part of yourself so you can give her room to come to life .
Overcoming Obstacles - what gets in the way? Plenty! We’ll talk about the most common ways you get in your own way and how to sidestep them.
Understanding Our Own Pleasure - we’ll talk science - libido, pleasure, and how it can fuel you to feel more sexy every day.
Learning How to Woo Yourself - Yup - wooing yourself is a skill - let’s learn it so you can keep that sexy self alive after the program ends.

By the end you will feel sexier, know how to keep that part of yourself awake on the day to day, and start to feel more confident and comfortable in your body for sexy times.

Sounds divine, right?

Here’s how it works

It’s a self-paced program. You’ll get regular email reminders and you can access the course anytime.
It’s all about routines and new habits. So the whole thing is based on weekly mini dates (2 per week) that you take with yourself. ( 1-2 hours per week total)
Doing this alongside others is really powerful - even though it can be kinda freaky. I’ve set up a totally private online space where people can share, ask me questions, and stay motivated. It’s optional, anonymous, and really fun.
Because I want you to get amazing results I will also be doing two live calls (October and November). Dates tbd.
We officially start October 5, 2020. The program runs until November 13 (my birthday!) but you will have access to the program for as long as it exists

Easy peasy!

This is the first time I am offering this course online so I’m doing a deep discount. Grab it now for only $149.00.

If you’re not blown away I’ll give you your money back.

Much love.

- The Happy V

FAQ

Who is this course for?

I have designed it specifically to address the challenges that mothers face in the early years from about 3-7 year old. However, any female identified person can take this program. If you are struggling with desire and sexuality in your long term relationship, and you have the time to commit now to giving yourself this space, you are welcome.

If your babes are teeny tiny but you have the time and the energy, join us, and if your kiddos are gone and out of the house, but this feels like you, we would love to have you as well.

How is the course formatted?

The course will be offered on the Mighty Networks platform. It will include video lessons (less than 10 minutes each) and guided reflections in audio, as well as journal prompts and worksheets.

It’s formatted to go at your own pace. I have designed it so there are two mini lessons per week. Each lesson will take about 30-45 min to complete (watching the videos and doing the exercises). This is a chance to set up rituals and routines around giving yourself some personal self-care time to connect with yourself at a deeper level.

What happens in the community? What if I know people?

The private community will also be set up in Mighty Networks. When you log in you can choose an anonymous name and image for your profile so only I will know you by your email address. You can participate as much or as little as you like.

The goal of the community is to a) give you access to me, but b) healing this part of ourselves is so so so potent when done with others. We can see that we are not alone, share tips, and come together as women.

I will post community guidelines - discrimination and judgement will not be tolerated and we will work together to create a safe space for all members to share as they feel comfortable. We will build this space together.

I don’t like dancing. Is this for me?

We won’t be learning choreographed routines or doing any kind of formal dancing in this course, however there are some movement exercises, think closing your eyes and just letting your body move to whatever music you put on. This is about getting into your body and out of your head, and really feeling into different aspects of yourself.

I encourage you to play to your edge, invite yourself to step into something new - and only sign up if this feels like a Heck Yes for you!.

What happens after the six weeks are up?

This course will be ongoing, you will have access for as long as it’s available. I will enroll new students on an ongoing basis after the six weeks are up, so you can expect to see new faces in our community. You will continue to have access to me in the community and to all the course materials to use on an ongoing basis.

Got any other questions? Email sofia@thehappyvaginaproject.com

Need a little solo love, or want to go deeper? Book a consult to see about 1:1 coaching (Email me at sofia@thehappyavignaproject.com. We'll work through your discoveries together and I'll share some practical tools to help you expand pleasure and connection in your life.